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“Anya is such a great guy, she goes to school by bus herself, she studies well, but you can’t go to school by yourself, although we live 5 minutes away…”; “Andrey made the stool himself, but you can’t even drive a nail”…
Let’s figure out why some people are successful, self-confident, can easily start a conversation with strangers, can be the life of the party, they exude leadership, they sing karaoke at friendly parties without embarrassment or hesitation, give toasts easily and eloquently, while others cannot do this. ?
As you know, most problems have their roots in distant childhood.
Here are some reasons for low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence:
- As a child, compared to more successful children
As a child, I was constantly compared to the girl Anya, who lived in another neighborhood, rode the bus to school herself, studied well, was beautiful and smart. Not like me…
Has this ever happened to you?
By comparing children with others, parents show their child that he is a loser. Of course, they wish the baby well and probably want to motivate the child in this way. But such tactics are losing. The child either withdraws and withdraws into himself, feeling unloved, or tries to match the image of another child, which…
