Humor in relationships. Do you need it or is it superfluous?

Helen
3 min readOct 13, 2024
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Humor in relationships is a complex and multifaceted phenomenon that has been a topic of interest and debate for many years. Some argue that humor is an essential component of a healthy and successful relationship, while others believe it to be superfluous and unnecessary. In this essay, we will explore the historical context of humor in relationships, discuss key figures who have contributed to the field, and examine the impact of humor on relationships. We will also consider various perspectives on the topic and provide a well-reasoned analysis of whether humor is truly needed in relationships or if it is merely a bonus.

Historically, humor has played a significant role in relationships. The use of humor as a social lubricant can be traced back to ancient times, with Aristotle referencing humor as a key element of human interaction. Throughout history, humor has been used to break the ice, relieve tension, and foster intimacy between individuals. In the context of romantic relationships, humor has often been viewed as a way to connect with one’s partner on a deeper level and strengthen the bond between them. The ability to laugh together and share jokes can create a sense of shared experience and camaraderie, helping to build trust and communication within the relationship.

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Helen

I’m a board member for the Harvard Creative Writing Collective and an outreach associate director for Harvard Women in Computer Science.